Last week, I read this blog post, and it really made me think. The blog is one that I read regularly, and like most blogs (about anything) that I read, sometimes it "speaks" to me more than others. The particular post I'm linking to was one that I thought made a lot of good points, and was accessible to most people.
I was not necessarily the world's most well-adjusted kid, but I have to tell you, it never, ever, EVER occurred to me as a tween, teenager, or a young adult that I was somehow *supposed* to look like models or celebrities in magazines. I would maybe like what they were wearing, or their hair and makeup, etc., but I truly never felt inadequate because of my body. So although I can intellectually understand that it can be/is a problem for women of all ages today, I can't really relate to the whole issue.
As I got older, and became responsible for feeding, dressing, and being completely in charge of myself, my biggest desire was to be healthy and fit. It didn't necessarily translate into me treating my body as the temple that health fanatics do, but it made me more aware that my overall health and fitness was my own responsibility. I have been fortunate to be a person who is comfortable in my own skin.
So anyway, back to the post mentioned at the beginning of this post. She points out that genetics and privilege make a difference. Unlike the writer's mother, my mother was not one who made sure that we always had whole grain breads, and fresh vegetables. We always had some kind of fruit, and there was always milk in the refrigerator, but my "deprivations" growing up were a result of my parents' coming of age when having convenience foods was such a wonderful luxury, that opening a can of vegetables, or cooking frozen foods were desirable ways to feed your family. The other reason was budgetary. We didn't have money for much, and although we were fortunate to always have something to eat, many of our meals would likely make people today gasp in horror. Milk was rationed to one glass for each of us a day, since it was seen as necessary but not easily affordable.
Having said that, I thought a lot of the points raised in the aforementioned blog post were worth stating. We all need food to survive, but in today's world, food and your individual relationship to it is such a sensitive subject that it can be hard to do what really works well for YOU and not feel that somehow you are wrong. My relationship with food, exercise, and just life in general has been an ever-changing one, and I've always been fortunate because there has never been pressure from anyone who mattered to me to be any different than I am.
So yes, I directed you to one person's way of doing things, and talking about it, and it may not have any relevance to anything about your existence. But when I read it, I really started thinking about ways that I try to "maintain my shape" and why I do what I do. In my case, I have had so many health problems that were beyond my control, I want to do my best to be conscientious about the things I can control.
Just like in clothing, one size does not fit all. It never will, and never should.
I do firmly believe though, that YOUR one size/shape/activity level should always work for you, and make you a happier and healthier person. I hope by reading this post, as well as the one that started me on this topic, you will be able to feel good about yourself, and decide what you want to try for your health. I truly believe that if you feel good, you look good, no matter how old you are.